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Are your standards too high?

Good morning everyone, How's the quarantine? Boring right? Well, today's topic is an open question to all of you, feel free to answer if you want :) Everything started from this quote of the one and only Coco Chanel. Yesterday, my friends and I were on Skype updating each other, since I haven't heard them for sooo long. As always, we left some time for "girls stuff" and by that I mean boys : so E. revealed she's fantasizing about her new colleague, V. told us everything about her love trip to Prague with her boyfriend (?) and I, well, simply expressed my extreme frustration and disappointment, due to my last love affair, or sort of. Anyway, they patiently listened to my mishap, till, after some embarrassing silence, I stated: I'm sick and tired of taking what I'm getting ! I deserve more than that, I'm better than that. Marilyn would have agreed, right? We spend our time justifying those men who can't satisfy our needs, who

Home alone

Here we are, all locked out in our houses,  small apartments or two floor villas. With or without company. Surrounded by our loved ones or perfect strangers. Learning fast, how to spend time with ourselves. Isn't it strange? In 2020 our biggest fear appeares to be being alone in a pandemic:  scary right? Being forces to pretend that you like yourself, you like being alone, you like reading books,  you like training in front of a computer or asking Alexa a good movie to watch. But what are we waiting for? Do we really need a pandemic to understand how precious our time is? How much do we have to love ourselves and our interests and passions first? Well,  I've worked hard in the past to develop my confidence, my selflove. It was painful, spending time alone, in an empty house, without family and friends there, ready to talk to you or even to fight for no reason. I remember that time. I've never felt so lonely. But time encouraged me to work on